It has come to our attention that there has been some drama on the forum as of late. It appears that a couple of members are unable to respond to certain others with respect and understanding. This is not what being a Katycat is about.
On KPF, we pride ourselves in the fact that everybody is allowed to have their own opinion and voice it as such, as long as it's within the rules. Hence why, whenever someone voices their opinion which may not be the general opinion, I urge them to take the feelings of others in account before posting. This also counts for those who responds to unpopular opinions. It are opinions and there is no need to attack somebody personally.
Hopefully this means that people have to respect my unpopular opinions, and that they should stop attacking me personally.
Going to try to do this in the least hostile and most friend way possible, but from everything I've seen mits, no one really attacks you personally.
The responses to my thread about "Ur So Gay", I felt were personal attacks. Also, I have received personal attacks via private messages from several members, which included profanity. I reported these to the moderators (I believe that the rules apply to private messages), but the moderators did nothing about them. So many of the more personal attacks people reading the forum won't see.
I agree and support you voicing your opinions, even more so of they are unpopular ones. The bigger the variety and different the group the better. That being said perhaps being less hostile whenever someone disagrees with you might help the group as a whole. You have a tendency to assume someone disagreeing with you is them personally attacking you. We are all katycats here, no hate, just love.
Again, I appreciate and respect your opinions and dedication to katy and everything, but sometimes you just have to agree to disagree.
And to be honest this can apply to everyone. It is literally impossible to agree with everyone on everything. Let's all realize that and be who we are. Katycats.
Again, I do not feel that I have been hostile toward others, and I feel that people have been hostile to me when they disagree with me. Again, check the thread I started about Ur So Gay. I specifically said that I have nothing against anyone who likes that song, and wanted to hear opinions from a diverse group of people.
A general pattern that I notice here is that people who dislike Katy's more risqué songs (Ur So Gay, I Kissed a Girl, Peacock, Dressin Up) tend to be flamed and threads about those songs tend to be locked. I've even seen people (on the Most Unfavored Katy Song) go so far as to apologize for disliking songs such as Peacock. Nobody should have to apologize for disliking a song. However, people who dislike the more innocent songs (such as Unconditionally, By the Grace of God, Walking on Air, Teenage Dream, Firework, ET, Who Am I Living For) are not given similar treatment. Could it be that maybe the people who like the more risqué songs are the same type of people who confront others with differing opinions? This is another double standard on this board that I am exposing with this post.